I have read your book and wanted to tell you that you have done an outstanding job. This is absolutely the best love manual for people with a brain. This is truly a Sexual Kung Fu book! Just like any good Kung Fu teacher, your emphasize underlying strategies, principles and energies involved rather than individual techniques and methods. Although none of the techniques described in the book were new to me, I was never able to use them successfully because I did not understand what the active ingredients were.

After reading your book once I was able to enjoy the most vocal and expressive reaction from my girlfriend for the full duration of our longest love making session, yet (two hours!) in spite of her being very tired that evening, when I was accustomed to rather indifferent ho-hum attitude in the past. In fact, she threatened to bring her friend to join us to keep me satisfied =). Although in the past I could go on for as long as forty minutes only the first 5-15 minutes were received enthusiastically by my girlfriend regardless of speed or position.

I have found the following principles to be the most valuable: 3-points of excitation, trigger zones, angle of attack (G-Spot pressure and male trigger zone), screwing technique, stroke frequency.

Your excellent comments about the G-spot also enabled me to finally find it and use it.

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I used a Taoist Qigong Mantak Chia practice to control ejaculation. Since I have much success with the other method, I did not try to implement yours but squeezing air in the lower abdominal helps the transfer of energy upward sometimes. Just drawing energy up while centering my mind in the third eye and then moving it up to Bai Hui works best for me without desensitization side effects. If I want to orgasm, I just orgasm, stop ejaculation by locking my PC muscle and anus and draw the energy up. This way orgasm does not stop the sex but only extends it. If I want to delay the orgasm, I draw the energy up and center my mind until the pressure goes away. The main factor is the conversion exercises (see Mantak Chia book Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy) and Microcosmic Orbit that I do daily that make the sexual energy a lot more manageable and easier to draw. Without the exercises I am not able to delay orgasm or stop ejaculation even if I train the PC muscle.